You’re Never Too Old To Start A Business - Simple Steps To Get Started

 
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I hated hearing success stories of people who reached huge success early on in life. There were amazing dancers who started dancing at age 4 and graced stages on broadway by their mid-teens. There were gymnasts doing backflips since they could walk and earning medals before their twenties.

Then there were the Mark Zuckerburg's of the world, creating million dollar websites in dorm rooms.

These stories never inspired me. Instead, I thought about how I spent my youth ignoring my teachers, playing video games and sleeping while others chased dreams.

I spent my teens thinking about cute boys and prepping for college only to use those college years clubbing and chasing a degree I didn't use.

When I finally had the desire to build a business, I couldn't help but wonder "Am I too late?"

Comparing myself to these people who had big dreams since birth, I worried that I was too old to start something. I worried my time had passed. I was in my mid-twenties. (I know, silly right?)

Once I started building Thrive Lounge, I realized that many of the women who were in my courses and hosting Vision Board parties were in their 50's - completely debunking fears that I had in my early twenties. They showed me that starting a business at 50 or older is totally possible……you just have to get started.

But really… Am I Too Old?

Quite simply…… no.

 At age 87, my Great Grandmother serves as an usher in her church and makes extra income from home by babysitting - after being retired for nearly 30 years.

 You are unable to start a business when you can no longer create or communicate, and to be honest that has nothing to do with age. It has to do with ability.

 As long as you can create value in this world, you can exchange that value for profit.

 

Why Should I Start A Business Now?

There are a lot of reasons you might want to start a business and I've listed some below. Before you get started creating anything, you'll want to understand exactly why you want a business.

Having a solid reason why will help you to follow through when times get rough.

 

Supplement your retirement income

Many Americans do not save enough during their working years to fully fund their retirement. Starting a side hustle while you're working can help you boost your savings and help with retirement catch-up.

If you’ve already retired, then starting a side hustle can help give you a better quality of life during your remaining retirement years.

 

Retire Early

Others may have done a great job saving during their working years, but want to leave their job a bit earlier than they anticipated. Maybe your job no longer fulfills you or you feel that a different purpose is calling you.

A side business can help you close the gap between the retirement savings you have and what you need to sustain your lifestyle until you are able to tap into those funds.

 

Fill your soul with the work of your choosing

If you've spent years working in a place that drains your spirit or energy, then you might simply be ready to do something for YOU. And that is 100% OK.

Starting a side hustle or business while you're still in the work force can help you to pay off debt and save extra money. Over time, you can grow your business enough to be able to quit your day job and transition into the business that you created for yourself.

 

Help the people you want to help

When you start your own business, you get to choose the people you help. I decided to start Thrive Lounge because I wanted to help women like me - the women who felt like they gave too much, dug themselves too deep in a hole and lost themselves in the service of others. I wanted to help these women find their identity, create a lifestyle they love without judgment.

 

Create the lifestyle you want after the kids have left home

The older you get, the older your children will get too. They'll need you less, and eventually, they won't need you at all. Those little people that dictated your schedule, are all grown up and your schedule is yours to fill with the activities of your choosing.

  

Share your experience

 You've spent years going through unique experiences - the good the bad and the ugly - and you got through all of them with your head held high. You built mental tools, professional skills, and a network that helps you accelerate through any challenge you come up against. Those experiences can now be used to serve others in a way that no one else can. There is only one you. No one can tell your story like you can.

 

What kind of businesses can I start?

The very first challenge holding people back is wondering what kind of business to start, but this is very simple because there are three business types that you can start.

 

Service-based business

 Service-based businesses perform a service. Examples could be meal prep, coaching or cleaning services. My great-grandmother has babysat children for her neighbors. We train people to host vision board parties and workshops in their own communities.

 

Product-based business

 In a product-based business, you sell a physical product. For example, people who bake can sell cakes, pies, and cookies. Painters can sell artwork. Writers can sell books.

 

Information products

 Information-based businesses package and sell knowledge. For example, someone who knows a language can teach others how to use that same language.

 

How To Start A Business (or Side Hustle) At Any Age

 Start with defining a "why" for yourself.

Above, I've already outlined some great reasons you should start a business. But those reasons could apply to anyone.

 Before you jump into anything, I want you to write down the one BIG reason you specifically want to start a business.

 

Determine what you're good at.

You've built up experiences and skills over your lifetime. Make a list of all the things you could sell as a service or product.

 

Make a game plan to get started.

If you're active in your community, this could be as simple as letting people know you're looking for a gig. You could reach out to your Facebook, LinkedIn or other social media networks to let people know what you’ll be doing. You could join local small business chapters in your town to start networking.

 

Set your prices.

Set a price that feels good for you at first. Something that you can say out loud with confidence and that doesn't make you feel like you're selling yourself short.

 

Actually sell one product or service.

This is where most people get stuck. It's easy to do the prep work, but you don't have a business until you go out there and sell something. Focus your energy here.

If you can make one sale then you know that your business idea is something that people will pay for. That means you can have confidence that you can sell again and again.

 

How To Get Started Right Now

1.   Say it out loud "I'm the perfect age to start a business." You must convince yourself that you're ready before you can convince anyone else.

2.   Brainstorm different business ideas. Start by simply brainstorming the possibilities.

3.   Pick One. Here's the moment of truth. Choose one idea from your list to devote your energy to. You don't have to marry this idea for life, but you gotta start somewhere to grow.

 There is no age limit on when you can start a business. As long as you have a desire in your heart to build something using your creativity, experience, and skill, you're ready. Take action today. One step at a time.

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Kids All Grown Up? 10 Simple Ways to Turn Empty Nest Boredom into Bliss

 
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My daughter went to her Dad’s house last summer.

She didn’t go off to Paris for a fabulous summer internship away from home. She didn’t pack her bags and head to college. She didn’t even get married and start building her life yet. 

My little 10-year-old left for one summer…

… and it killed me on the inside. 

It was my first summer without her, and up until the moment she left, I bubbled with excitement over how productive I’d be. 

I’d be able to write that book I’ve been thinking about for years.

I’d work harder at my 9-to-5 job. 

I’d even start dating again. I would have sooo much time to myself! 

Then she left and reality hit. 

My time was no longer structured around  when she woke up in the morning, when she went-to and came home from school, when she needed dinner and her bedtime routine.

I started to wake up… whenever I felt like it. Dinners became grapes, cheese and wine in front of the TV. I visited friends houses and couch surfed for weeks. I over-worked at my 9-to-5 because I had no inspiration to stop working. I drank too much on the weekends. 

Until finally, one weekend I found myself hanging on the door of my friends car, throwing up in the middle of the street, and then subsequently sleeping on her couch until 4pm the next evening when I realized…. 

I was never going to finish that book, be more productive, or date. There was no time to do the things that mattered because the one thing my entire life centered around was gone. 

My Daughter gave my life meaning. 

Without her… who am I? 

It wasn’t until I spent time with some women in their 50’s who told me that I was suffering from some acute version of empty nest syndrome. 

What is empty nest syndrome?

Empty nest syndrome happens when your adult children leave the house and you, as a parent, feel empty inside. Your little birdies are all grown up. They’ve flown away to build lives and families of their own. Your little nest that was once filled with children is empty and you’re left to figure out what’s next. 

How Do I Know I’m suffering from empty nest syndrome? 

I started to experience all of these signs without noticing. You can experience these at any time of your life so you may not immediately think about empty nest syndrome when you’re in the moment. 

  1. Anxiety: You worry about your child(ren) and what will your days look like without them.

  2. Depression: You lose clarity on your values and desires. 

  3. Loss of Confidence: You’re in a new phase of your life, experiencing change

  4. Loneliness: Your number 1 fan and friend has left your home. It’s normal to feel super lonely.

What causes empty nest depression?

I didn’t realize that my daughter and my identity were interchangeable. I lived to serve her, play with her, entertain her, teach her, protect her and be a good example for her. 

Without my daughter, I lost my identity and my purpose. My value system took a major disruption - because my daughter was my #1 priority. Without her, I didn’t know what my values were so I said yes to every bad idea, took part in every indulgence and became a person who I didn’t recognize. 

Many people experience this to a higher degree because when your children are actually leaving the home for good, it often comes at a time where your aging body is changing, you may be retiring, or your aging parents may need more care and attention. All of the change in your life can accelerate your lack of clarity and exacerbate those feelings of anxiety around your life. 

How To Thrive When Kids Are Gone

If you haven’t prepared yourself for empty nest syndrome and it’s smacking you in the face now that you have nothing to do with your time other than worry about your adult children. Then it’s time to start focusing your energy elsewhere.

1. Make a list of the positives

Keep things simple with a short list of the positive things in your life. Before your mind drives you crazy with all of the things going wrong, make sure you have a  clear idea of what’s going really well to keep you level headed during the difficult times. 

Maybe you have a spouse that loves and supports you, friends who adore you, or a career that’s going very well. Keep that list handy to reflect on during your challenging moments.

2. Rebuild your home the way you envisioned it

The moment your children move out of the house is a great time to think about how you’d like to change up your space. With all of the change happening, your child’s room can feel frozen in time and a space where you go to reflect on their childhood (and torture yourself with missing them even more). 

Maybe you’ll want to put a fresh coat of paint on a few walls, re-organize closets, create a home office or exercise space. You don’t necessarily have to change your children’s room, but make sure that you have some space that you are excited to come home to.

3. Join a group focused on your hobbies

These days there are lots of opportunities to join fun hobby groups. Check out local facebook pages for upcoming activities. Go to your local craft store and find the class schedule. Call up a friend who you know has the same hobbies and start your own group. Check local church bulletins to find volunteer opportunities.

If you aren’t really sure which hobbies you’re really interested in, then it’s time to try something new and find out what YOU actually like to do in your spare time.

4. Make some new friends (or call up your old ones). 

Connecting with old friends is always enjoyable. Years of raising kids and working often leaves little time left for friends. Head out for coffee, dinner or WINE!

Invite a co-worker out who you’ve never spent time with outside of the office. Join a new hobby group and meet some new people.

5. Actively participate in your community. 

Join a book club. Volunteer at a soup kitchen or your local library. Get involved with your local church. Help out at a near by elementary school. There are plenty of activities to get involved in. Try a few out and see which one suits you best.

6. Prioritize your significant other (or meeting one).

Our partners often don’t get much of our time either. Plan a date night out. Or a movie night in. Take up ballroom dancing. Anything to spend time together and get a chance to talk and connect.

If you’re single, join a singles group to meet new people. Have a friend set you up on a date. Start getting to know some new people until you find one who you want to stick with.



7. Try Something New

Maybe you always thought it would be fun to learn to paint or to take a pottery class. Maybe you like to read and have wanted to join a book club but haven’t had much time to get books crossed off your list. This is a great time to try something new.

You’ll find out if it’s a hobby you want to stick with. And you’ll probably meet some cool people in the process.

If you’re not sure what you want to try, Pinterest is just waiting to share a million ideas with you.

8. Manage your finances. 

You may be thinking more about retirement now that you don’t have kids in the house. This is a great time to sit down with a financial planner and discuss your retirement goals. Perhaps your ready to start thinking about downsizing your house or maybe you want to cut back on your spending to speed up that retirement date.

Keep your partner involved in the conversation too. Time to nerd out with a good spreadsheet and make sure your money is invested in the right places and giving you maximum returns.

9. Seek to understand yourself without kids.

There’s no doubt about it - you’re a brand new person (or your about to be). You now have no restraints on your time based on a child’s demanding schedule and you’re free to do whatever you want to do with those hours. 

What do you want to do with your time? 

You didn’t have enough time to ponder this before because every moment your child finds you alone they have yet another request. With them safe, secure and out of the house, it’s time to ask yourself the hard questions. 

What do you want to do with your time? What do you enjoy doing with your time?

Not what’s expected of you or what would your job, friends, or family want from you… but what do YOU want from you. 

What do you want your life to be about? 

Who are you? 

If you don’t spend some time discovering who you are, you could easily find yourself drifting into whatever situation that presents itself. The only way to make sure you’re living the life you want is to define the life you want. 

10. Work on rebuilding your confidence. 

One of the hardest things to understand is how a woman who has written two books, raised a child, secured several degrees, landed jobs at top agencies, speaks with confidence in a boardroom feels like crap at home when she has no one to make a sandwich for. 

It happens, my friend. As a parent, I didn’t realize I equated my worth with my ability to serve my child. With my child gone, I didn’t have a stable definition of my own value. 

If you’re like me, you may have to re-establish your worth in your own eyes to regain your confidence. Remind yourself of all the amazing things you have done, the people you’ve impacted and the growth you’ve endured over the entire course of your life. 


Ready To Take Action Right Now? 

  1. Accept your feelings.

  2. Make a list of the hobbies you never had time for when your children were young. 

  3. Take one action that will help you start working towards that hobby.


Watching a child leave your home can be difficult because the foundation of your life is changing. Where you once were subjected to your child’s schedule, you’ll now be free to create your own. Rebuilding your life and finding other things to do with your time is 100% up to you.

What fun and purposeful things will you do with all your newfound free time?


Ready To Accomplish Your Greatest Goals? 

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  2. Take a FREE personal development class on CreativeLive

  3. Design your dream life with purpose and intention with Self, YES!, our signature vision board course.

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Six Simple Steps To Quieting Your Mind and Finding Inner Peace

 
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Have you ever had that nagging feeling that keeps you up at night, ruminating over what went wrong and how you could’ve done something differently, made a smarter decision, or had the right come-back line. 

You replay the moment over in your head and you can’t get your mind off of it. 

We’ve all been there.

How do I regain my peace of mind after a moment of weakness, failure, frustration or loneliness?


What is Peace Of Mind? 

It’s exactly as it sounds. When you have peace of mind, you move throughout your life without shame, doubt or guilt. You accept where you are in your life today. Your mind is quiet and calm. 


Why is Peace of Mind Important? 

Through peace of mind you can have more confidence in your abilities. You can trust yourself to make decisions that are in your best interest. You don’t take action out of fear or pain. You don’t negate or diminish your worth in the presence of others. You don’t connect your worth to any one point in time. You don’t feel uneasy going through life. 


When Do You Need To Use Peace of Mind Tools? 

These tools come in handy when you’ve recently experienced a moment of regret, shame, or pain. At these times in your life, it’s easy to blame yourself for your situation and worry about what could happen as a result of your misgivings. 

Peace of mind tools pull you out of that moment quicker so that you can regain confidence in yourself and your decisions.


Where Can You Find Peace of Mind? 

Two factors contribute to your ability to find peace of mind: time and distance. 

You can wait for enough time to pass where the pain of your mistake weakens and you’ve had more experience throughout life. 

An example of this is heartbreak. The first day of a breakup can seem impossible to get over. You replay every last conversation in your mind, wondering if you could’ve said something different or done something different to make things right. After a while, you think about the situation less as time goes by. You get used to the idea of being without that person and start to create new routines.

You can distance yourself (and your worth) from your pain intentionally, and create that space between the pain purposefully. 

Breakup is great example here as well. You can intentionally do things with your time to ensure you’re not thinking about your past love. You can spend more time with friends, pick up a new hobby or start dating again. All of these things distance your mind from the situation and help you find peace in your daily life.


How To Create Peace of Mind (Even When Everything’s Gone Wrong)

Self Forgiveness 

Yes, the first thing you have to do once shit hits the fan is forgive yourself for your part in this moment. 

You will make mistakes, bad decisions and (sometimes) you’ll be super selfish or too giving in a way that you later regret. Rather than blame yourself in this moment, accept that you’ve done something you’re not proud of. 

You take the first step in forgiving yourself the moment you accept, forgive and love yourself for all the choices you’ve made (not just the good ones).

Remember the Past

As much as you replay this moment in your head, you would think it’s the first time you’ve experienced this. However, it’s likely not. 

Thinking about the last time you suffered through a similar experience helps to remind you what happens next. 

For example, during my last heartbreak, I started to think I’d never find love because there’s something wrong with me. 

Then, I thought back to past relationships and what happened when they came to an end. I always found love again. That fact gave me the confidence that I didn’t choose wrong, there’s nothing wrong with me, I’m not incapable of long-lasting love. I’m simply ready to find love again. :) 


Own Your Mistake

We all make mistakes, and the first thing you must do to achieve peace of mind with your decisions is to accept that your decisions lead to mistakes occurring. When you can pinpoint exactly what you did to create an event, you can dissect what feelings or emotions led you to making those decisions. 

Now that I’ve accepted that, I can think through ways I could’ve better served my personality and my needs. 


Focus on What You Can Control

If you’ve accepted that you made a mistake, then you’re ready to take full control of your actions next time around. You can write a list of things you did wrong and what you can do differently next time.  Many things are out of our control, but by focusing on what you can control, you’ll be sure to see better results moving forward.

Use an affirmation for when you’re beating yourself up

The mind is a tricky place to get trapped in. After a rough moment, it’s easy to get caught up in a negative loop where you think of every terrible outcome that could happen as a result of your mistake. 

Imagine you sent an email or text message you regret. You’ll think about the recipient’s response, their next possible actions and how that could impact your relationship over the next year. 

In these moments you can stop yourself from having anxiety about the future by bringing your mind back to the present with an affirmation or favorite quote. 

Related Content: If You Want to be Happy, Try Journaling

Reflect on Your Wins

No amount of reminders can negate the fact that the mistake happened and you feel bad for it. However, I’m willing to bet there were several times where you did something right and you have proof of that. 

Spend some time looking back at old emails, social media posts or cards from people that love and adore you. Throughout all of your mistakes there are times where you’ve done amazing things, helped people and made a positive impact on the world around you. Use those moments to get you through the tough times. 


Actions You Can Take RIGHT NOW: 

If you’re experiencing that uneasy feeling that you’re royally screwed up, take these simple steps to gain a bit of inner peace right now: 

  1. Find (or create) an affirmation that you can repeat when negative thoughts arise. 

  2. Find three positive examples of times that negate the mistake you’ve made. 

  3. Write down three things you can do differently in the future. 


You control your inner peace. It’s impossible to have inner peace all the time because, quite honestly, life freakin’ happens. Sometimes you will make a mistake that shakes your mindset. Sometimes your life will change in a definitive way that makes you question your abilities. Sometimes you’ll experience something that you replay in your mind over and over. 

You can always come back from those moments - and you can do it faster than you think.  

Comment below with one of your favorite ways to bring back your inner peace!


Ready To Accomplish Your Greatest Goals? 

  1. Cut soul-sucking activities from your life to create a purposeful future you LOVE in 10 days with the FREE Prioritize Me, Guilt-Free journal prompts.  

  2. Take a FREE personal development class on CreativeLive

  3. Design your dream life with purpose and intention with Self, YES!, our signature vision board course.

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